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DonateIn this Dharma Talk, Brother Pháp Dung invites us to reflect deeply on how we relate to one another and how we can bring more authenticity, kindness, and joy into our communication. Speaking with humor and warmth, he draws on years of practice at Deer Park Monastery and the Plum Village tradition to share how Beginning Anew has become a cornerstone of community life and family healing.
Brother Pháp Dung begins by acknowledging the presence of children and families at the retreat, reminding us that true spiritual practice is not separate from daily life—it is woven into how we show up for our loved ones. Children, he says, teach us flexibility, joy, and openness, while family practice circles remind us of the power of reconciliation and the courage to cry, listen, and embrace.
From here, he unfolds the Four Key Elements of Beginning Anew:
Woven through these teachings are practical reminders from the Buddhist path: cultivating solidity like a mountain, freshness like a flower, clarity like a calm lake, and spaciousness like the open sky. These inner qualities are the roots of all skillful communication.
Brother Pháp Dung also highlights the importance of nonverbal communication—the silent transmission of presence, care, and mindfulness through how we sit, walk, breathe, and listen. More than clever words, our true presence is the greatest gift we can offer.
The talk is full of vivid stories: watching a stern father melt into tenderness with his grandchild, learning to play with children as part of monastic training, reconciling with parents without words, and even roasting peanuts as an act of love. These stories ground the teaching in everyday moments, showing that communication is not just about speaking, but about embodying presence and openness in all that we do.
At its heart, this Dharma Talk is a reminder that what we long for most as human beings is connection. While modern technology and busyness often pull us apart, the simple practices of Beginning Anew bring us back to one another, back to our families, and back to our own true selves.
As Brother Pháp Dung concludes, Beginning Anew is not just a technique, but a path of compassion, humility, and transformation—an invitation to see that no matter our suffering, no mud, no lotus.
From time to time we offer multi-week courses related to mindfulness, the teachings and life of Thich Nhat Hanh, and a variety of similar subjects. Please see our schedule of upcoming courses.
Take the Deer Park Monastery and Plum Village community with you wherever you go. The Plum Village app is designed to cultivate mindfulness, compassion, and joy through guided meditations, deep relaxations, practice poems, bells of mindfulness, and other practices — all through a mobile device.
