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Christmas Eve Dharma Talk | Sr. Kinh Nghiem

In this Dharma talk, the speaker reflects on the practice of nurturing love, understanding, and joy within ourselves, even in times of confusion, sadness, or challenge. The speaker shares a poem by Thich Nhat Hanh, written during a 1999 US tour, that speaks about the teacher searching for the student. This poem touches on the idea of being lost and finding our way home, symbolized by nurturing joy and warmth through simple acts, like drinking tea.

The speaker shares personal stories from their time as Thich Nhat Hanh's attendant, reflecting on the concept of love and how we care for ourselves and others, especially in difficult moments. They pose the question: how do we care for ourselves when we feel lost in the "forest" of confusion and doubt? The speaker discusses the importance of nurturing our inner warmth, generating joy, and creating a home for ourselves—both physically and emotionally.

The talk emphasizes the practice of bodhicitta, the mind of love, and how our practice isn’t about seeking comfort but sharing that love through action. Just as the monks and nuns provide guidance and protection, we too are called to offer love and compassion to the world, particularly during times of uncertainty and suffering.

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